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Keva Epale's avatar

Thank you for these words of hope, Anugrah!

Bonus: I loved your end note on failing big. It's so freaking painful, though. But on the other side at each mountain, you transform into that "giant to be."

Enjoy your summer and take care 🎈

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Dr Karen Shue's avatar

Thank you for all your thoughtful curation and drawing together bits of wisdom for us.

Today. this bit made me think: "Cultivating a questioning mind, of which conversation is the chief instrument, enriches our relationship with the world. Having a conversation with someone I may disagree with is, I have come to find, a great, life embracing pleasure.”

When I work with people (and their brains), I work on the assumption that whatever is happening for them right now makes sense in some way. Their brain~mind isn't going to go off in some bizarre direction for no reason. In some way, this is solving a "problem" for them or is at least an attempt to do so. The most common phrase I used in my practice was "That makes sense".

What would happen if we entered into these challenging conversations to discover how this "makes sense" for them where they are now and~or base don where they've come from?

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